"You can accept it!"
What does it feel like? If I tell you, "I accept you"?
It's not good, right?
The statement has a weird aftertaste, right?
Have you ever thought about it - why?
Why and when does it take me to accept you? But only if I have previously rated you negative and also believe that my rating is correct.
If you have a thing, a situation, another person, or anything that says or does not say, does, or does not do ... have not previously rated negatively, then you do not even get the idea that you should accept this thing, this situation or these people!
No valid reviews - no acceptance , so: why deal with accepting, if this is just a result?
We believe in parent and maternal evaluations and then spend our lives trying to accept our father and/or mother.
We believe the reviews are about our partner and then engage ourselves with accepting the partner.
We believe the reviews on different groupings and then we work to accept them
We believe ... and then ...
Accept sounds superficially nice, friendly , generous or similar. On the other hand, if you take a closer look, there is always a personality (ego) behind that believes that valuations are actually something to do with truth. With the so-called individual truth, my opinion, my point of view o.ä. Reviews have something to do. However, this has nothing to do with truth, which must be the same for all people.
If it is not the same for everyone - but only for individuals, a large or even huge group - It is just an individual interpretation, or a valid assessment.
The more we believe that evaluations are true, the more intense and longer we can then accept On the surface it seems to help, but it does not really work because, as so often, we only care about a result instead of getting to the bottom of it.
Why do not we all look together, what is natural and real and what is left without all the magic? Always and in everything? What is against it?
Why continue to believe in illusionary valuations, concepts, theories, philosophies or perspectives that more or less strongly insist on their correctness and then Acceptance of Anders believers? (The religions are only a minimal part of this)
If you engage more intensively with human perception, it will be obvious to you that all the reviews that have ever been about They have been uttered, never said anything about you - about what you really are! No way!